Dressed up for a big interview, picking at my hangnail that starts to bleed. I answer everything with an enthusiastic punch. As I meet the future team something bumps me.
I shake the coworkers hand and make great eye contact. That’s what I have been taught to focus on when meeting someone new. The eyes go from eye contact to my feet, to my legs to my boobs, pauses and back to eye contact.
As an interviewee I have to just ignore it and move on but for me it happens more than often just because of the size of my chest. Men need to realize what they are doing and respect women and avoid the elevator eyes.